Some guys can be pretty useless in winning the affection of a woman, I've seen some tragic displays in my time. I once went on a date with a guy and he was so fucking eager it really put me off so I never called him again. You'd think that would be the end of it but he literally bashed my phoneline was a solid week asking why I wouldn't go out with him again. It was pretty cringe.
If your game is pis poor, here's Amanda Cerny with some pointers. Take heed!