This woman is dating four guys & is now up the duff!
A polyamorous woman has said she’ll never go back to being monogamous after finding love with four separate dudes.
20-year-old (really??? She looks about 40) Tory Ojeda from Florida lives with her four boyfriend’s and claims they all get on extremely well. Tory met 18-year-old Marc in High School and then got together with 23–year-old Travis two months later. Not content with having 2 dudes, she then started dating her mates Ethan and Christopher, both 22.
Currently, is the the only one in the relationship to have multiple partners as her men are only dating her at the moment. However, Tory has said they are “welcome” to pursue other people if they wish to. Hmm, really? Or is that the sort of shit that girlfriends say when they want to test you?!
Here’s what Tory had to say:
Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner. Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it’s kind of difficult. I’d like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.
Apparently everyone has their own bedrooms but the guys “swap in and out” of Tory’s bed every night, making sure that each one of them gets an “equal turn” in having a go on Tory. I don’t fancy being a fly on the wall in that bedroom. Eww.
On the subject of jealousy, Ethan said:
There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.
Travis added:
There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person. Seeing Tory with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him. Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.
Things got slightly more complicated seven months ago when Tory found out she was pregnant, but she insisted they’re all happy about it. She said:
Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was. Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us. But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad. We’re all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.
Yikes. I just have images of Tory saying “go ask your dad” and the kid being confused as fuck! To each their own I guess. Although, I’m a bit worried about this dude, he looks like he’s on some sort of register!
