A dude over in L.A is living the absolute dream because he gets to settle down every night to his two smoking hot girlfriends. Jimmy Silva, Chacha Va Voom and Summer have been involved in polyamorous 'triad' since 2012 and they say their relationship has 'no rules', meaning they also get to have sex with other women.
Since the ‘throuple’ met they have been inseparable and although they are in love, they decided to keep their relationship open, agreeing that it’s totally cool for them to collectively date other girls, providing they are honest with each other and have all given their seal of approval. Jimmy says:
Our relationship has no rules with each other. We always love, make out, hold hands, we try to put no limits. We all have sex together and we enjoy it more when it's all three of us.
Jimmy, who’s a marketing director of his own company, first started dating his girlfriend, Chacha, after they met in school and clicked instantly. It wasn’t until 2012 that the couple met Summer at a business event, and from there they decided to become a ‘triad.’ The girls are happy to welcome other girls into the relationship but it seems like other dudes are an absolute no-no. Jimmy says:
All of us enjoy girls, so every so often there is a girl that pops up that we all feel is cute and that she is giving us all equal attention, so we agree to hang out.
We always let them know that if she doesn't like all of us together then we can be friends and it ends there.
If the girls are attracted to all of us and we feel the same, we are open to dating her. We are not a closed triad, but we are not actively looking for a fourth.
We do have timeouts on each other so when things get really heated we give ourselves some time to reflect and then continue the conversation. For me, polyamory means that there is more to life than just normal rules, you can live happy and enjoy a fantasy every day.
Here’s what Chacha has to say about the relationship:
I have always known that I could love more than one person, I didn't know what it was called but I knew it was happiness.
Since I was young I was always attracted to girls and I always felt like people didn't care much about me or love me.